Former Bachelorette Trista Sutter said “I do” to her husband Ryan nine years ago and the couple are still crazy in love. Dedicated to her marriage and two children, our Scorpio girl has some advice for Bachelor Sean and Bachelorette Desiree on how to make your relationship last. In a recent article with Parade, here’s what love advice Trista had to give.
Marriage is suppose to be forever, hopeful couples get hitched every day with the intentions of sharing their lives together. For Bachelor Sean and Bachelorette Desiree, fans might wonder if they really want to find love or are only interested in fame. After all for a lucky few, appearing on the popular dating show can make you a millionaire instantly over night. Just ask Sean Lowe.
For Bachelorette Trista and Ryan, fans fell in love with the couple immediately. They gave millions of women hope that fairytales do exist. Making us think, we all must have a Prince Charming waiting for us somewhere. Hopefully, dressed up like a fireman and looking like Ryan Sutter.
Of course, life is not all about exotic holidays and first impression roses. In the real world, you have bills to pay, kids to feed and you have to deal with the day to day struggles of life.
For Trista Ryan, she has some “big sister” advice for Bachelor Sean and Bachelorette Desiree. Here’s what she had to say. (Are you listening Sean?)
1. Above all else, make your relationship a priority.
2. Do not waste any more time living separate lives…you are committed to each other, so commit to living in the same space, or at least the same city.
3. Try to focus on what’s real and not what was reality TV.
4. Act like “normal” traditional newlyweds and set up appointments for premarital counseling a few months before the wedding. It is something that we didn’t do, but from what I understand, it is an excellent way to actually get to know each other on a level that you wouldn’t otherwise…especially on reality TV.
5. Enjoy yourselves!!! Take time to smell all the roses that will surely come your way, but enjoy them together and don’t get caught up in the hype.
6. You were open. You were honest. Now, just continue that trend and keep communicating.
7. Be grateful. I’m sure there are things that you would change about your words or actions on the show, but if you focus on the positive and look to the future with a heart full of gratitude, you will find you will have a life full of even more blessings.
For Trista Sutter a Scorpio like Sean Lowe, they may face some love challenges in 2013 and 2014. For Trista, she may want to branch out when it comes to career, she loves being a mom but may want to get back in to television. She’s a passionate girl and may feel bored.
Sean Lowe, Hollywood has our big Texas stud enthralled. He has so many opportunities thrown at him, we think marriage is the last thing on his mind. It’s prudent to wait but will Catherine feel left out. That’s definitely something both Bachelor Sean and his girl need to address. Otherwise, we see someone broken hearted.
Either way, Astrochicks predicts an intense year for lovers. Either you’re breaking up or getting married. Stay tuned.
Sean and catherine as i would put God in the relationship and like Trista say be real to each other. sean don’t leave Catherine out or you will be alone I’ve seen it happen my husband is aroud but he don’t much me kids yes he alway say I need to sleep for yes work nights but I want go with family so Sean and Catherine work on the relationship just like Ashley and JP and Jason Mesnick did for you two are real I haven’t delated the last three espiode i keep watching it was a beatuiful end made me cry late for work, so put trust in it and God. Stop letting write wrong things
Trista seems to be saying what a lot of people are thinking … and her words are aimed at Sean Lowe. It really is time for him to get a real job, and start getting serious with Catherine. Where Desiree is concerned, the big risk with her is that she will sacrifice her religious convictions and moral standards just to get a man.
I think Trista Sutter definitely is an expert when it comes to love. She’s been married for nine years, has two kids and still in love with her man. I think the key to her success is she left Hollywood and puts her family first.
To those previous Bachelors or Bachelorettes do keep your own advise or opinions to yourself. Don’t act like an overnight experts coz’ Sean and Catherine did not ask for any advise nor they needed one. They are a smart and very genuine couple, they have seen and know very well what had happened to those previous couples,they are doing fine JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE. Why do these people trying so hard to act like GOD to them?? Just leave them alone and concentrate with your own relationship and your own family!