Chilli of TLC, hit her blog this week, and gave a little sisterly advice to anyone that has been cheated on. Also, some wisdom to the losers who do the cheating. Because as you know, there has been a WHOLE lot of celebrity cheating going on. You here that Tiger, Jesse, Tiki, and all the other dudes we don’t know about.
Chilli says, “My general feeling on cheating, period, whether it’s a girl cheating on a guy—because they do—or vice versa is that I don’t really understand it. We live in a country where we can choose our mate so if you’re unhappy with your mate for whatever reason, then break up. It’s pretty simple. (Hallelujah!)
There’s more, “I’ll just say this: it wasn’t that I just experienced cheating with Usher because he and I never discussed that in detail. That wasn’t the first time I experienced cheating in a relationship. I’ve never cheated but I don’t know any woman on this planet who hasn’t experienced something like that. “( Amen sister!)
Don’t ask, don’t tell policy, “That doesn’t make any sense. I have every right to ask you questions, you have every right to ask me questions. Now if we want to give the answers, it’s up to us but there’s nothing wrong with that because how else will you find out?” (Absolutely Correct!)
On dating, “That’s why they call it dating. Dating doesn’t mean we’re sleeping together. Dating doesn’t mean I’m your girlfriend, you’re my boyfriend. It means that we are exclusively dating each other trying to get to know each other. And then you can graduate to the next level of the relationship.” (Smart Girl!)
Chilli, a sweet Pisces chick, truly is a romantic at heart. Hopefully in her new reality series, “What Chilli Wants” she’ll find herself a good man. I see marriage for her by 2011, hang in there girl.