Rihanna, speaks out and gets real, in a new interview with Diane Sawyer. She discusses the shock and shame she felt over her abusive relationship with Chris Brown.  In speaking with the media,our Pisces girl,  hopes that she can help other women escape from a down spiral of violence.

Newsday Reports:

“When I realized that my selfish decision for love could result in some young girl getting killed, I could not be easy with that part,” the singer said. “I could not be held responsible for telling them, ‘Go back.’ If Chris never hit me again, who’s to say that their boyfriends won’t kill these girls . . . I just didn’t realize how much of an impact I had on these girls’ lives until that happened. It was a wake-up call for me, big-time.”

That Rihanna, 21, required that wake-up call was shocking, as was her reaction that she was “embarrassed” about her love for Brown. But in a way, that she is making these revelations – they continue Friday, as more of her interview with Sawyer airs on “Good Morning America” and “20/20” – as part of the publicity campaign for her upcoming “Rated R” album is even more shocking.

Nevertheless, Rihanna is moving ahead with promotion of her album, due in stores Nov. 23. She will receive Glamour’s “Woman of the Year” award at Carnegie Hall on Monday and perform in London on Nov. 16 at a concert that will be streamed internationally on the Internet through nokia.com.

In her interview with Sawyer, Rihanna said that victims of domestic abuse need to think clearly about their actions. “Don’t react off of love. — love,” she said. “Come out of the situation and look at it third-person . . . Love is so blind.”

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Jacy Nova

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