Douchebag alert. In the latest saga of Jon and Kate, it’s been revealed he missed his wife’s birthday in March. Where was he? On the a motorcycle trip with buddies and a secret rendezvous with ex mistress Deanna Hummel.

“I went out to Utah for, like, five days,” he says. “I just wanted to get back out there and ride with my friends. It just happened to fall on Kate’s birthday.”

Not shown on camera: Deanna Hummel, the 23-year-old teacher with whom Jon had a three-month affair. A source confirmed to Us Weekly they were together at a Spring Gruv party at The Canyon in Utah on Kate’s March 28 birthday.

Back home in Pennsylvania, the kids surprised Kate with a trip to Charm City Cakes, which is featured on the Food Network show Ace of Cakes.

That’s weird. He should have been there for Kate’s birthday. At least for the kids. Sounds like he has some growing up to do. Hello!!! You have 8 kids. Hopefully, Kate will find a new man who loves her.